[WARNING: Somewhat lengthy post].
I splurged on a pair of shoes last month in hopes of finding a pair of flats that woudn't kill my feet. I got these (pic from Nordstrom.com):
Tory Burch Reva in Black Leather with Silver Medallion
As much as I love my Bloch Giselle Flats, they are not for every day city walking. There is zero arch support, and although there is a little bit of padding under the foot, they still feel like house slippers. They will not hold up over time as I have learned, because after wearing them pretty much every single day for months, I found a hole forming on the bottom after running down the leather sole. =( Plus, with the lack of padding, the shoes were not doing my body any favors. I guess as you get older, your body starts to get pickier about the proper footwear, because I was totally starting to feel it.
I actually bought these Revas a few weeks ago, and opted not to review them until now, when I was sure I was going to keep them. So I think I may have posted a few pics in previous posts with me wearing them. Normally I would wait for an awesome deal, instead of forking over all $195, but I needed to be able to wear these out and see if they worked for my hyper-sensitive feet. So I purchased them from Nordstrom so that if need be, I could return them even after I wore them (gotta love Nordies!). My biggest concern about these shoes was the elastic heel. I need an elastic to keep the shoe on my extremely narrow heels, but the elastic must be soft enough not to dig and cut around my boney ankles. A few months ago I slipped them on quickly in the store after trying to avoid doing so for years, and was instantly in love. The elastic so soft I didn't even feel it. A few weeks ago I decided to bite the bullet and purchase them online, with cashback of course. Being a soft and supple leather, there was a good chance these were going to stretch, so I went with my usual size 6. My initial order, I went to pick up in-store. The leather was super soft and pretty thick, and a very good amount of padding under the foot. I quickly slipped them on in the lounge area to see if they fit. They were kind of short. Or so I thought. But later did I realize that they weren't really short, the area around the medallion needed to be worked in a little bit. It was a little stiff above the toe and around the mouth near the toes. So at the time, I did think they were a bit small, so I opted to go up half a size, which Nordies shipped to me since they didn't have any in stock. No problem, I could wait (like I had a choice).
When the 6.5 arrived, they were a bit tight around the mouth again, notably around the outside of my foot, and still stiff around the medallion. So I put on a pair of socks and walked around the apartment for about an hour. When I removed my socks, they actually felt a bit long. I was confused. If it stretched this much after an hour, what is it going to feel like after a few wears? And for sure they were going to start slipping off my heels, especially on my smaller foot. Being as difficult as I am about shoes, I re-ordered the size 6. Here are the pics with and without flash:


With the size 6, *again* they were tight around the mouth, particularly around my outside metacarpel (the joint that connects the toe to the long foot bones). Note, that these are a pretty narrow shoe, but it was a significant pressure point on my foot. A little bit strange considering I have narrow feet. However, I was willing to give these a chance. I put on some socks and walked around for a while. The shoe seemed to stretch out around the medallion and a bit around the mouth, but I was still feeling it around that one pressure point on my left foot, and a little on my right. OK, whatever! I decided that I was going to wear them to work and see what happens. I know that sometimes it takes 2or 3 wears for leather to completely break in, so I was going to have some faith in these little Revas.
The first few wears were a bit painful. I didn't feel them stretching out that much so I was starting to get a bit concerned. One night after work, I took some vinegar and water (1 part vinegar and 3 parts water) to the leather where it was pushing on my metacarpel and stuffed in a shoe stretcher. I mean, really, this had to work, right? Once the leather dried, the leather did feel a little loose. Perfect! I was going to wear these again to work tomorrow. Unfortunately, the leather seemed to go right back down to its original shape. WTH? But I wasn't giving up yet. I was convincing myself that I thought the leather was stretching out just a bit more. But this time it was probably the fifth time I wore them to work. Just a few more times is all it needs. I was sure of it!
Then a few days ago after a weekend in T.O., I slipped these shoes on and made my way to work. As background, I use the DC Metro to commute, so in the morning, I hop on the bus to the Metro station and then have about a 7 minute walk to work. I was still feeling a bit of a pressure point on my foot, but I wasn't really complaining. My co-worker decided around lunch time that she wanted sushi and asked me if I wanted to join her. It was about a 15 minute walk or so. Sure! Why not? I love me some sushi! But apparently, my shoes did not. I was in some pretty severe pain when we got to the sushi place--and I still had to walk back! I could feel the pain on my metacarpels...on both feet, and callouses forming in those areas trying to fight back against the rubbing, or whatever was going on there. Then I started to feel the rubbing all around the side of the sole of my foot. This was not good news. A 15 minute minute walk on the city streets and I was in a lot of pain. I knew right then I couldn't keep these. I live in the city. If I can't get through a 15 minute walk without pain, these had to go back. =(
So I am on my flats search again. I have already purchased a few already in hopes of finding something I love (and doesn't kill me). Keep on the look out in the next few days for some more reviews. I do have to say though, despite these Revas not working for me, if you are willing to splurge a bit, many ladies rave about the TB Revas, so they are definitely something you may want to try; I may just be one of those freaks that can't wear anything! It is a great looking shoe and as long as you don't find the big medallion annoying, the leather is great and they seem to hold up very well. Maybe some time down the road, I will try another pair in a different leather and see if they work, but for now, I'll have to try to find something else.
I should also mention, if any of you haven't heard, Bing.com is now 40% cashback. Definitely take advantage of this if you can, they are discontinuing the cashback program at the end of this month, and I have no idea what they are going to replace it with!